Ramadan Planning

I am in the process of planning R’s activities during Ramadan insha’Allah. Daily we will be focussing on her Qu’ran reading and Hifz, her reading practice in English and also one folder of activities per day. Here are links of some of the activities we will be doing. May Allah reward the sister greatly who put all of this together. Ameen.

http://tjramadan.talibiddeenjr.amanahwebs.com/ramadanlearning.htm

http://tjramadan.talibiddeenjr.amanahwebs.com/ActivitiesForYoungerKids.htm

http://tjramadan.talibiddeenjr.amanahwebs.com/ramadancrafts.htm

Beautiful advice from raisingmuslims.wordpress.com

This is a post from http://www.raisingmuslims.wordpress.com. It is so beautiful masha’Allah.

These last couple of weeks we took a trip to visit a friend whose husband recently passed away. Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’oon. Verily to Allah we belong and to Him we will return.

Like me she has 3 very young kids, and she has been a homemaker eversince her first child was born. But now Mommy has to be Daddy too and insha-Allah she will begin her new job soon. Her younger kids will be sent to a Muslim runned daycare while the oldest one will enter an Islamic school bi ithnillah. May Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala make it easy for her and her family. Ameen.

Looking at her situation made me realize the great favor that Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala has blessed me with, and which I have taken for granted all these years…that He has given me a husband who is healthy and fit and is able to provide for us so that I can be a full-time mom and homeschool my kids.

You know homeschooling in itself can be trying at times and one of the most hardest experience I’ve had was to homeschool and attend to a nursing baby at the same time. Alhamdulillah, my son is fully weaned now and those days seem far away, yet when I really think about it, if given a choice I would willingly go through that all over again rather than go out and work. Yes, it’s true that just the mere thought of not being able to be home with my kids is enough to make me feel all queasy inside!

And Alhamdulillah, I am so grateful that I do have a choice and I chose to be a stay at home Mom. What I really need to understand is that if Allah wills, it could easily be that I do not have a choice but to work. O Allah please help me to remember this and be grateful to you for your favors. Ameen.

Sometime ago I remember reading a very beautiful piece of naseeha from Tea & A Think:

“As one du`aa goes (received by email one day):

Allah, I thank Thee for this sink of dirty dishes… we have plenty of food to eat.

I thank Thee for this pile of dirty, stinky, laundry… we have plenty of nice clothes to wear.

And I would like to thank Thee, for those unmade beds in there. They were so comfortable last night. I know many have no bed.

My thanks to Thee, Allah, for this bathroom, complete with all the splattered mirrors, soggy, grimy towels and dirty lavatory… they are so convenient.

I thank Thee for this finger-smudged refrigerator that needs defrosting so badly. It has served us faithfully for many years. It is full of cold drinks and enough leftovers for two or three meals.

I thank Thee Allah, for this oven that absolutely must be cleaned today… it has baked so many things over the years.

The whole family is grateful for all that tall grass that needs mowing, the lawn that needs raking… we all enjoy the yard.

I thank Thee Allah, even for that slamming screen door. My kids are healthy and able to run and play.

Alhamdulillah.

Allah, the presence of all these chores awaiting me says Thou has richly blessed my family. I shall do them all cheerfully and I shall do them gratefully, In sha Allah.”

Even though the du’a is specifically about being thankful to Allah for having household chores (which I do not particularly look forward to) and looking at them from a different angle and actually appreciating them, I think we can change it to accomodate any circumstance in our lives…

In my case for example;

O Allah I thank you for all the whining and squabbling from my kids that I hear on a daily basis…alhamdulillah I have kids and am able to be home with them and enjoy their company.

O Allah I thank you for all the trials and tests I’ve had to deal with in homeschooling…alhamdulillah my kids do not have to attend public school.

O Allah I thank you for all the times I wish my husband wasn’t so busy with his work and studies so he would have more time to spend with us…alhamdulillah we have enough money so that I do not have to go out and share the burden of providing for the family.

Shukoor Alhamdulillah. All praise and thanks be to the Lord of all the Worlds.

Update

I have been really really really tired this last week. Baby Z is not sleeping very well. We threw out his dummy and looks like I have become his dummy! May Allah give me lots and lots of sabr. Just broke down crying at 4am this morning because of the pure exhaustion…but life must continue eh! Alhamdulillah.

As for R, well we have taken it very easy this week. Last week I tidied and rearranged her room slightly so that she can use things that were at the back or corner of shelves. I think this should be done regularly, as children tend to pick the same things to play with/use which are easily accessible to them. So, all of her reading books were brought down to the living room and she now has her own two shelves in the living room. This has proven to be an excellent decision, alhamdulillah as she is reading much more and I am reading much more to her. I read on one sister’s blog that she reads to her children every day and that inspired me to do the same. Although I have been reading to her before, it was a very small book, but now I am reading books without pictures to her and she loves it (interrupts me every 2 minutes to ask me question or add her 2 pence worth – but loves it all the same!)

Alhamdulillah we have been focussing on her Qu’ran reading and memorisation and she has completed Surah Zalzalah and has begun Surah Bayyinah. She is also reading very small arabic words with the help of harakat of course. Alhamdulillah.

We also visited Regents Park during the week – they held a free fun day and she made a rabbit mask, a felt fish and bounced and jumped on bouncy castles and trampolines. And took a flower made out of balloons home with her – which burst on our way home. It was a lovely day masha’Allah and it was nice just chilling out with my kids, eating lunch on the grass on our own and talking. I did meet up with one homeschooling sister but she disappeared by the time I wanted to ask her to eat lunch with us.

Apart from this, I am planning our ramadan activities. I think I am going to concentrate on Qu’ran reading, hifz, reading in English and ramadan activities during ramadan. Everything else will be put on hold. I am a little stressed at the moment, as I am trying to organise my own ramadan timetable, R’s timetable as well as her timetable after Ramadan. Shall post more on this soon inshaAllah.

Hijrah Blog

Assalamu Alaikum,

A sister asked for a link to my hijrah blog so here it is:

http://hijrahtoalgeriafeesabillillah.wordpress.com/

 

Wsm,

Umm R